It’s been a funny old day in WeeGee land today. I am still very poorly but I am also a bit bouncy and enthusiastic which is a strange combination because it makes you do silly things like wearing an outfit you bought to go to a wedding to work and feeling a bit over dressed for the rest of the day…..
I didn’t fancy a re-run of yesterday’s adventures in not boring yourself to death when you are poorly at home so I decided I might as well go into the office to try and not bore myself to death there instead. It’s actually quite easy not to bore yourself to death in the office on a Friday when everybody is in a good mood and therefore more susceptible to join in when WeeGee bounces around being distracted and generally hilarious. Much fun was had in the office this afternoon and I kept forgetting I was poorly, which was nice. We also decided what’s going to happen next in Homeland* and which one of the IT Crowd is most likely to buy an ipad mini even though they’ve already got a pad, pod and phone and every other gadget going – the conclusion was Mr Hilarious, by the way and that is exactly why Mr Hilarious is my best friend in the world bar none.
What next? Oh I know….. I had a particularly amusing search engine term yesterday which I thought I’d share: “how do you date 25 people at once?”. In the off chance that person comes back to my blog in an attempt to find the answer I’m going to point it out to them: YOU DON’T. THE END. Whilst we are on the subject of online dating here are my top tips for the day:
- It is never, ever, socially acceptable (not even on the Interweb) to say the following to a stranger ‘hey there WeeGee can you tell me how fab your tits are?**’
- If you’ve never met me and you call me ‘darling’ I will take an instant and irretrievable dislike to you***
- If a guy sends you his number and the only thing you can think of to store it as is ‘Nick the perv’ you definitely don’t want to store it
I think that’s about it from an online dating point of view – although I should point out that I met a magician recently. As in a real life actual person who goes to work as a Magician every day. How cool is that?
Now for a small serious section
I’ve been having a few little worries to myself recently – not the big “I’m so worried I’m going to jump off something tall so I don’t have to worry anymore” kind of worry, but you know what I’m like with worrying so I thought it was the kind of thing I should talk through with Mrs Mountain. Mrs Mountain reliably informed me that most of the things I am worrying about are the things that NORMAL PEOPLE worry about anyway. Which was nice. She also pointed out that if you’ve spent two years wanting to climb up a tall thing just so you can jump off it it’s natural to be a little frightened by the thought you might actually like to climb up a tall thing just for the sheer hell of it – and that made a lot of sense to me.
We also did a bit of boundary checking today what with boundaries being one of the things I’ve been having a little worry about. My usual problem with boundaries is setting them too narrow so that nobody can get anywhere near me – I know about narrow boundaries and how to sort that out. What I don’t know about is boundaries that are too wide, and I suppose I was worried that the current attack of the bouncy and enthusiastics might have set my boundaries too widely and was giving too much of myself away. Anyway, we came to the conclusion that probably isn’t the case because I’m not ending up anywhere I feel uncomfortable and also because I know that I get to set my own boundaries and that’s the end of that.
The end of the small serious section
Meanwhile in other news I will shortly be going home to be poorly which sucks because everybody else in the whole entire world is going out to eat, drink and be merry and I’m quite bouncy so I’d like to do a bit of that too. Instead I am going home to eat healthy red, green and brown stuff, and then cuddle up with Gryff and watch Have I Got News For You. Rock and roll. Nothing else to report today save that…. Did I mention I am poorly?
Lots of love and awesome things from WeeGee Still McSickNote xxx
*If what we’ve decided is going to happen doesn’t happen I am going to be VERY DISAPPOINTED
**Because everybody knows that the correct terminology when addressing a lady such as myself is ‘breasts’. That is A Joke, by the way
***Most other affectionate pet names are acceptable apart from maybe sweet cheeks, I’m not keen on that
21 thoughts on “How do you date twenty five people at once?”
But there are more than 25 days in a month- it could totally work! Not if any of them called me “sweet cheeks” though, I’m with you on that.
My small brain was not designed to deal with such complications in life!
And there’s me thinking WeeGee was about to ask for advice on how to date 25 people at once… Whoooops! 😉 Boundaries are a massive issue for me. Generally I do the too-wide option. I’m learning though to be more sensible about what I am “taking on” so to speak. Hope you’re feeling a bit better this sunny Saturday xx
….. Can you imagine how mental I’d be if I tried to date twenty five different people?!
Thanks so much for your help last night when I was all boo hoo. I’m really glad to have you around to make me smile and help me work things out. Huge massive ginormous hugs xoxoxox
Huge massive ginormous hugs back. To be honest I find it hard to understand how people manage to keep two men going at once let alone 25!! X
i hope you feel better soon!! what do you mean you can’t date 25 people at once? 😉 boundaries are a difficult especially for those of us who never learned them as kids! xo
I would probably go a bit mental trying to date more than one person never mind 25. Boundaries are tough for a lot of us, aren’t they. Mine got mixed up when I was a teenager xxx
lol me too with many dates and boundaries!
how are you feeling today?
Today I am starting to feel better. I’m sure I’ll be bouncing around again in no time now 🙂
yay! that’s good news! just don’t bounce on the bed! 😉
feel better Wee and thanks for the smile.
Thanks lovely and you are very welcome for the smile 😀
“how fab are your tits” takes a lot of front to ask that
Doesn’t it just – especially when it is BY WAY OF INTRODUCTION….. People are weird xx
seriously you have to give it till at least the 3rd email! btw check yours (giggles)
….And gullible WeeGee heads off to check her emails before thinking ‘hang on a minute’ xxx
LMAO damn wish i had sent it now LOL
I don’t know what to say lately but I have liked reading your updates..they’ve been inspiring to me to keep going and at least try, thanks. Also, you really do make me laugh too.
Hey Dorothy – I’d noticed you were quiet. Hope things aren’t as bad as all that (and if they are, feel free to drop me a line anytime) I’m glad I managed to make you laugh – it’s what it’s all about isn’t it. Keep on trying. I promise that it can get better eventually xxx
There are very few blogs that have the capacity to make me smile the way yours does. I hope you feel a bit better soon.
What a lovely comment – I’m glad I manage to make you smile. Smiling is good xxx