Today I have mostly been thinking about how far I’ve come since this time last year. When I think back to how I felt, and I how ill I actually was in March 2012 it’s tempting to come to the conclusion that I’m a different person altogether…
It was a fairly standard Sunday in WeeGee land – brunch with Mr Brave, a good long run, a chit chat with Mrs Sparkle, and making French onion soup with a bit of soccer ball in the background for good measure. It’s hardly rock and roll but when you compare it to curling up in a teeny tiny ball wishing you were dead you have to admit it’s a pretty damn sweet life I’ve got going on for myself now.
Even the setbacks don’t feel too much like setbacks anymore. When rubbish things happen now I recognise that although they might make me feel sad they are little more than the ‘contingencies of life’ and that whatever you think, or however you feel, life will keep going on so long as you’re prepared to let it. I wish I could pinpoint the moment when I decided that all this living stuff was for me, but I can’t; it just kind of crept up on me.
This week has been and gone now. It was a fairly solemn week what with one thing and another but IT WASN’T THE END OF THE WORLD. This week was just another week where things, and stuff and what not happened and where WeeGee faced up to it all and said I STILL WANT TO BE ALIVE THANKS ALL THE SAME.
More than anything this week I feel like I’ve suddenly realised that this is what recovery feels like. It isn’t perfect – sometimes I get sad, sometimes I cry until I can’t cry anymore, sometimes I wish there was a stop button and sometimes I just want to hide. But most of the time I’m still out there, doing my little thing and climbing that impossibly tall mountain that goes by the name of life.
WeeGee: intrepid and fearless mountaineer.
HUGE ginormous hugs from WeeGee xoxoxox
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This is one of the most wonderful reasons for writing a blog or journaling of any sort, looking back and seeing how much you’ve grown. Good for you, sweet pea! 🙂 You’re a rock star! 🙂
Cool beans. Rock on 🙂
Good news 🙂
i’m glad you’re continuing to climb! what does onion soup with soccer ball in it taste like? 😉 xo
Thank you. It tasted okay but it was mostly the onions….
This is really good WeeGee, I know it has been a very hard week/year but you have come so far, like you said. Really glad that recovery is going well 🙂 Hugs xxxx
Thank you sweetie. Remember it will come your way too one day. xoxoxo
Hugs back lovely xoxox
I am so glad that you have some this far. It has been very wonderful seeing it unfold in your blog. You have done a great job in changing your world for the better. God bless! xx