Evening chickadees! How’s it all going?
We had one of those miserable little posts earlier in the week, didn’t we? It had been a tough day, during a tough week, at the end of a tough month and I’d been doing my best to pretend none of it was happening. When I put it like that it’s no real surprise that I popped up with one of those miserable little posts…..
I’ve been blogging for a while now, and I’ve written an awful lot of posts where the most sensible start seemed to be “I don’t know where to start”. I really don’t think I’ve ever meant it more than I do now. So many things, so many feelings, so very many squillions of things I ought to say and not one single clue about how to get the ball rolling. In case you haven’t noticed I’ve also been blogging for long enough to know that when you don’t know where to start, writing about not knowing where to start is a perfectly acceptable way to get the ball rolling.
Now the ball is rolling I can’t help thinking that the best thing to do is cut a long story short, mainly because it’s a VERY long story with lots of ins and outs and bits in the middle but also because the whole story doesn’t belong to me and, when it comes to telling stories, I’m pretty careful to stick only to my own.
The only way to make the story short is to say that it really is ALL CHANGE here in WeeGee land and that’s making for confusing, if occasionally exciting times. Everything is up for grabs: where I live, where I work, what I do for a living and how I go about living this little life that I’ve carved out for myself. It feels like a tall order because I’d only really got back to the straight and narrow after what I now know, with the benefit of hindsight, was a pretty major attack of the mentals.
When I was unwell I felt that I was constantly on the edge of something – usually a cliff. I feel a bit like that now and if I’m honest it isn’t a feeling I much like. Right now I think I’m feeling a little scared because I’m going to have to face up to a lot of endings in the coming weeks. Those of you who have been reading my blog for a while will understand exactly where the fear is coming from. WeeGee doesn’t really do endings and I think I’m learning that that doesn’t change when WeeGee is well and medicated and not in the frame of mind where jumping out of windows seems like a good idea.
Earlier in the week I wrote that I didn’t really know which way was up at the moment and I think that was the only part of my post that made any sense. On the one hand I’m in a place in my life where opportunities are around every corner. On the other hand reaching out and taking them is going to mean saying goodbye here and there. Every time I think I’ve got that figured out in my head it all unravels again….
Anyway. I think that should just about do it for today. I’ll be back once I’ve had another one of my little thinks – they are in plentiful supply of late.
I leave you today with a song from my past. It’s one from my teenage years when I was angry and optimistic and cynical and hopeful all at the same time:
While we’re about it, we might as well have a sweet little acoustic version of the same song because it’s nice to mix things up a bit isn’t it?
Meanwhile in other news I have nothing else to report today save that I love you all lots and lots, like JELLY TOTS,
11 thoughts on “Fade away”
Changes are always hard. Hope you are doing ok WeeGee. Take care and remember to give yourself time to relax, too much stress makes things worse. Hugs xxx
Thanks Ellie – it’s lovely to hear from you. I’m trying to take it easy and keep my chin up. Like you say, stress just makes everything worse. I hope you are okay. Huge hugs back xoxoxo
One moment, one step at a time. Hugs xo
Indeed. How do you eat an elephant? Bite by bite…..
Huge hugs back lovely xoxox
Oh yeah very true! lol
Good things really can, and DO, happen to awesome people just like you! 😀
Awww. Thanks Mama xoxox
Thinking of you. We dont do well with change either. Hope the moves and stuff goes well. XXX
Thank you lovely. Sending hugs xoxoxo
Hello lovely, I am so awed out by you. Yes I can hear your disbelief…but it’s true. I’ve learnt so much from your honesty. Changes and endings; who actively seeks those things out? But I don’t see endings in isolation, I choose to see them entwined with beginnings. A bit like a never ending circle. Anyhow, with social media, endings don’t have to be abrupt as they once where.. Wee Gee, where ever you go, we will still be here, supporting you and laughing with you and making the journey together. Thank you for all you bring and for your humour. 🙂 xoxox
Oh sweetie. Thank you so much for your sweet and thoughtful message. I really do appreciate your words xoxox